I think in modern day dating and relationships, some people are pretty brutal and ruthless with others.
I think of all the things I whine about being unfair, relationships are one of them. And I usually consider taking rejection like a man, and in issues of being unfair. I think it is fair to conclude that if someone was never fair in the first place, that it is fair to say that person never really loved that person in the first place.
THEREFORE
For the person that was unfair, it is continuously unfair for their to be any expectations or demands of the other.
Great. Wonderful. A man found the woman of his dreams and she is his undeniable queen.
This is when it gets into Bonnie and Clydes and imposing one's will on another.
I will not suffer for another woman just because she is the one the man chose to love and I am not. It is back to issue of extent. Wonderful, she's your queen, but that doesn't mean she is my queen as well where I have to be subject to the couple's queen and king mentality.
Keep your lordship mentality to yourself.
I would rather wait for modern day world evolution where king and queen relationships have a more watered down and less extreme regard. I don't think queen and king relationships should be given so much power.
Further harassment is when either man or woman gets harassed and hated for being single. I will never bite the bullet "You're nobody until somebody loves you." I will still have self respect regardless of whatever king or queen I may be confronted with in my life.
So, I roll with Natasha Bedingfield on this one:
Definitely a more modern day perspective
(To remain fair for the sake of being fair, I have cried for a white knight. Natasha has a better dream despite the occassional sadness of being lonely.
And stay true to my territorial roots of my personal relationship with myself:
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