Seth.... You really have me stumped. You still have a piece of my heart but you really have me stumped. I didn't quite hear everything at the beginning of the show, but I will roll with your Arab man player concept. You also give an impression that you are bisexual. I wonder if you want me to wonder if you are a sexaholic or sex addict with the number of people you could be relationally involved with. You just led me on in such an intense way that I can't or don't know how to let you go if you wanted me to let you go.
I also see how the setting is making me look like a player. hmph. I will elaborately explain this one. Macaroni Grill? I don't know who I am on a date with. I'm assuming it could be someone's safety net for me "for the sake of my ego and that looking single would make me unworthy." Well, to describe any kind of relationship is awkward. Single and seeing you? ......I don't know...... Johnny Depp. Jessica, you are and aren't making me jealous. I will always like the techno "WTF" song, but as for the impression he left on me? It wasn't good to compare me to my Aunt Lisa. Some of the shares he may have had with others was awkward. To top it off, he is the one who is symbolically responsible for leaving me stranded and damned to this figurative but real island that I am on.
Seth. You are being smart with reality and who the biggest threat is. Luke. Presently, yes and no. He represents and has a great stance with one particular battle: 4th ammendement and rights to privacy. In the general perspective, it is for the greater good and should always be an acknowledged ammendment. In my world, it is and is not a sense of security. I have already suffered feeling overexploited and violated even in some ways that I do not know how to describe. Instead of sticking with this particular battle, I would rather go to the entire concept of the war: ISSUES OF ENTITLEMENT.
I have some pretty hateful enemies that want to go beyond just exploiting me. They would want to have the entitlement to say they deserve all entitlement and would want to slave laboringly rape the shit out of me in some of the most inhumane ways. This is something that can't always be seen, because as the cheesy quote has already been said: A woman's heart is like an ocean. And, I'm not always wearing my heart of my sleeve.
Entitlement though can go beyond just privacy, exploitation, and even physical nude exploits. No matter how severe a tyranny can be, I will always believe that a person has a heart, mind, and soul of their own despite the lengths a tyranist would go in claiming "ownership," or "possession."
(Luke really knew what he was doing when he chose the battle of the 4th ammendment. However, we are not technically dating. We can digitally have some different kinds of communication from time to time but I havn't seen him and don't consider myself to be in a relationship with him.)
There are so many fallacies amongst people and the tyranist that not everyone will ever understand. There is not only the more tangible issues of communication, but there is also a lot of psychology and grey areas within issues of entitlement.
In this damned island experience that I have already observed, people intentionally test and trigger dominance, possessiveness, and entitlement to either say how much they love wanting to torment me or how much they would hate me. I consider myself ignoring and negligent disregarding any claims any person would have. That is what is going on with my snowflake. It could be a different story with other snowflakes.
Any way, in communication, not everyone is going to have the integrity to make a real acknowledgement. A time investment should not always have to be required but when it varies with importances between either party, sometimes a time investment can't be skipped. Some people purposely lie or intentionally torment a person for the sake of wanting to torment or get under their skin. It just varies with people to people how they take each other and the things they would lie about and what the priorities of their goals are or whatever it is that a person is trying to prove.
Besides this, is so many other subcategories and issues within entitlement. There are differences between class of wealth and even smaller subcategories of codependencies with poor to poor; wealthy to poor; or wealthy to wealthy. It can be broken down into so many fractals from there that it isn't funny. Entitlement is such a severe and dangerous subject that not a lot of people including myself may comprehend in entirety even if they tried. I do give myself some credit that I do have a good extent of comprehension and understanding of the issue of entitlement. It can be frustrating that I don't have everything solved, but I am satisfied and proud in my own intelligence with the things that I comprehend.
While the war of entitlement is the biggest war in my eyes, I have taken note of some other battles. I really do hate when the sexual nazi battle is brought up, but that battle really does exist. People really do have serious and even severe sexual discrimination and issues of all sorts. There are plenty of other battles. There are plenty of other agendas and sometimes it is as simple as being vulnerable to the interests of the wealthy. It doesn't really turn out to be simple but the reason of the battle itself is. I think some of my major issues is how much people are in denial. I may not always have severe hate crimes to my face, but I hate that people would deny that I am hated and purposely set out to be unemployed. There are plenty of strategies to either get me fired or quit, but I even hate when people deny their desperations and riggings and corruptions.
In other random thoughts................Seth, when I wonder about possible shares and connections you remind me of another local. I'll just say his first name is Dave. I really would find it surprising if Dave really had any serious romantic feelings toward me. I like Dave as a person and would see him as a friend. I think it is nice if he were to try to make effort with me, but I just don't have feelings for Dave like that.
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